Lighting a candle for baby loss awareness week

Posted by admin on Oct 11, 2012 in Uncategorized

I can’t think of anything much worse then losing a baby during late term or at birth.  The reality is that in the Uk we lose 6500 babies very year.  That is 17 babies each day across Britain.

The Baby Loss Awareness organisation coordinates the International Wave of Light remembrance each year where parents and families can light a candle on 15 October between 7-8pm in honour of the child that has been lost.

This month in 2008 we lost one of our twins.  We named him Aaron Roark.  We buried him under the shade of a sprawling yew tree overlooking the harbour.  Aaron’s twin sister Yasmine will be 4 on her next birthday.

I’m getting emotionally choked up as I write this.

When I look into Yasmine’s eyes I am always reminded of her brother Aaron.

I don’t think any parent or family ever ‘get over’ the loss of a baby or young child.  You get to a point where the emotional pain can be managed, yet it never goes away.  At least in mine and my wife’s experience.

We still regularly visit his grave.  And Yasmine and Mummy say Good Morning to Aaron together each day.

While I’m no professed expert on pain, I think with a great wife and 7 children I’m an aspiring expert on the subject of love.

Do we love a child we only held for a moment, any less than a toddler?  I don’t think there is significant difference between the degree of love that a parent experiences.

We published Aaron’s Star, an illustrated and compelling story of love, and hope in 2010.  It was my answer to my wife, the mother of Aaron and Yasmine.  This story continues to touch hearts today around the world.  If you can make it through the short story without a hanky and reflection, you are a better man than me.

If you know people that have experienced this very sensitive issue of loss, please let them know about Aaron’s Star and they can make their own mind up as to whether or not it helps them deal with their loss.

Together let’s you and I try to spread a bit of love in a world that is kind of turned upside down right now.  When we remove the masks we wear, the only real thing that matters is the love we give and receive.  It can change our home and it will change our world.

In the meanwhile as our paths cross in the A-Field, here is a picture of Aaron’s sister Yasmine Miracle.


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Baby Loss Awareness Week

Posted by admin on Oct 9, 2012 in Uncategorized

Baby Loss Awareness Week is happening this week,  9 – 15 October 2012, leading up to Baby and Infant Loss Remembrance Day – International Wave of Light – on Monday, 15 October, when families light candles in remembrance of babies and children they have lost.

Roark wrote Aaron’s Star for his wife on the loss of one of their twins mid-term, to help deal with the loss and bring some comfort in their time of grief.  Everyone cannot help but be moved by Aaron’s Star, with its emotional sensitive prose.  Have a look at Aaron’s Star on Cloudninebooks’ website.



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Baby Loss Awareness Week

Posted by admin on Oct 9, 2012 in Uncategorized

The book, Aaron’s Star, a source of comfort for bereaved parents in light of the Baby Loss Awareness Wave of light – Monday 15th October at 7pm (www.babyloss-awareness.org). At www.cloudninebooks.com we have a short illustrated book for parents and families who have experience the loss of a child. Written from the heart by a father who lost a twin during his wife’s pregnancy.

Aaron’s Star has helped many bereaved families in what is a sensitive and difficult time. The book, which can be dedicated to the lost child, is available from www.cloudninebooks.com at £9.99.

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‘Aaron’s Star’ – August 2010

Posted by admin on Jul 28, 2010 in Stuff

Well we’re coming up to one month later than expected, yet ‘Aaron’s Star’ will be available August 2010.

It will be available to booksellers in the USA and UK for their customers, online at our website, and at Amazon and a few others online.

Whew. I went back to my early emails on this project and my heavens it has been almost 7 months in the making.

Aaron’s Star is designed to offer some comfort to those people and parents that have lost a child during term, neo-natal care, or early life.

Here is a sneak preview of ‘a’ page–

Aaron's Star

I’d like to thank Carolyn for literally living through the story with me in more ways than one. Thank-you.

I’d also like to thank Deepali for her glorious, moving, and touching illustrations. She has done a superb job- and Deepali if you read this – Thank-you for putting some ‘good’ life energy and alot of heart into Aaron’s Star.

Where does it go from here? Let’s see. There is a plan mind you.

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